How I went from being a depressed mother to helping other mothers pursue their meaningful dreams while cultivating
more ease, joy, and vitality in motherhood
Before I gained clarity of who I truly am and
what I truly want, I was lost and overwhelmed.
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Before I took a shift to reinvent myself and my purpose,
I was stuck with deep childhood traumas and inner issues.
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Before I was brave to live my truths, I was afraid to be
who I really am.
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Before there was space to thrive on my mission, I was a busy exhausted mom who was unwilling to ask for help.
Before I was able to embrace the imperfections, I was all
over the place trying to control everything and burnt out.
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Before there was a thriving business, there was desire
buried under the weight of fear, doubt, and shame.
Making choices that are not genuinely true to me
I became a mother at the point where my inner issues remained unresolved, so I was very distracted and dysfunctional with the new realities and new responsibilities as a mom.
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My whole being was ripped apart, exposed. Lost, and lonely.
I did everything right. I was a good wife and mother. I did what I was supposed to do. It looked perfect on the outside but didn’t feel good
on the inside.
I'd decided to put my dream, my career, and even myself on hold
in order to be committed as a full-time stay-at-home mom.
Which made me feel even more depressed about myself and my life.
I ended up feeling small, depleted, and powerless; it was like my soul
was dying inside. I struggled to be a joyful, healthy mother to my child
no matter how hard I tried.
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Then I realized:
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"The choice of being a perfect-sacrifice mother is what set me up for misery."
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I turned inward and it was not easy.
My life is ticking away, I couldn't afford to let another year go to waste by staying stuck with darkness.
Because time is so precious. Life is so precious.
Wasting time equals wasting life.
Instead of trying to figure it all out by myself (and I kept getting stuck), I choose to be brave to ask for support from coaches, mentors, and loved ones.
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Instead of waiting until I 'have' time, I choose to 'make' time to pursue my dreams.
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Instead of sacrificing my well-being to be a noble mom, I take care of myself and just be an ordinary mom (imperfect yet joyful, and alive).
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Instead of letting my house and motherhood define me, I own my self-worth by staying true to myself.
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Instead of demanding more from my husband to make my life better, I demand more of myself and take charge of my life.
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And after all, that was dialed in ...
Creating ripple effects
'No mud, no lotus.'
A beautiful metaphor that it's a natural way of life to experience difficulties (the mud) at times and they're meant to enhance us to grow and evolve into more capable human beings.
Without the mud, the lotus cannot grow to share its beauty with the earth.
This simple truth helped me turn my biggest breakdown into my greatest breakthrough.
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In the midst of the deepest breakdown when I was 6 months postpartum, I decided to take a leap of faith to make an investment in myself hoping to just be a more alive, joyful mother.
But I couldn't believe that just I knew who I truly am and my true purpose, it not only made me become a better mother to my child but I've been able to share my gifts with other mothers through my coaching offers that helped them navigate their unique challenges.
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My deepest breakdown was actually my greatest breakthrough--my greatest gift.
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What I'm trying to say is this: Motherhood is not trying to break you down, it is breaking you open from the old disempowerment that inviting you to come home to your truest self, so you can enjoying the flows of life. Without needing to lose yourself, ever again.
When we are open and willing to make positive changes, the Universe will offer us more than what we ever thought possible.
And when you are brave to go first to make the changes, there creates ripple effects to your children, your mission, your family.
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If I can do it, so can you!
A motherhood love note
I know you didn't become a mother to suffer or get horribly stuck with burnout and breakdown.
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And since you're reading this today, I know not only that you are looking for some help ...
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But also I know this: You have a deep compassionate love for your children. Meaningful dream you want to pursue. And you always yearn to be a better woman, a better mom. ​
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I get it.
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Having learned my lessons and made countless mistakes, I can genuinely tell you that: Rebirthing—knowing, accepting, and being who you truly are is the first key step to experiencing true fulfillment and nurturing your child!
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Only when you are being your truest self, you can have a blossoming relationship with yourself.
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Then you can have a healthier relationship with others especially those who are dear to you—your child.
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No matter how much you want to give to your child if it’s not available in your own individual experience, there’s no way you can give that to them.
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You can't give what you don't have. #truth
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It's also very important for you to agree with me here that any kind of human experiences whether it's suffering or happiness is primarily caused from within.
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It's our way of disempowered being, thinking, and doing that makes us fail to determine the joyful experience we want.
Thus, to be able to determine better experiences, you need to change your better ways of being, thinking, and doing.
That’s why the main point of conscious mothering work is all about 'you' to make love, fulfillment, and vitality available to you first, then you can give those to your child.
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This is what I’m here for.
Through my 1-on-1 Coaching Program, I’ve had the honor to deeply support mothers to pursue their meaningful dreams, gain clarity of who they are, and rediscover their life direction while cultivating more ease and joy in motherhood.
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I can understand how hard it can be for you so I'm sending you love along
no matter where you are.
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Journey to Rebirth
01
COMPLIMENTARY
CLARITY SESSION
Apply for a free 75-minute coaching session,
where I'll help you gain clarity on how to
cultivate the meaningful life you want and
mothering with joy and vitality.
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GUIDEBOOK
'THE BLOSSOMED MOTHER'
Download the free 17-pages guidebook to help
your break free from disempowerments to transformations for yourself and your children.
A Little bit more about Rothkeo
Rothkeo has traveled and worked in 12+ countries.
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She first discovered her calling during her exchange program in India where she volunteered in a 'Young Women Leadership Program'.
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She loves being taken care of by the Mother of Nature.
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She is a passionate yoga practitioner.
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Her greatest teacher has come in a package of her two children who constantly remind her to stay compassionate to herself so she can simply love without needing to sacrifice or lose herself ever again.
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She has other deep creative interests in painting and interior design.
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She is highly sensitive and introverted who rather have her own company than engage in small talk or attend big social events.
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